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Relocation

Moving with a child, or objecting to a move, with the notice, timing and long-distance plan done right.

A move can be the best thing for a family or the end of a child's regular time with one parent. Washington has a notice process when a parent the child mostly lives with plans to move, and the other parent can object within a set time. We help parents who want to move and parents who want to keep a child close, and we spend a lot of time on the part that matters most: a long-distance plan that keeps both parents in the child's life.

Who usually calls us about this

You want to move

A new job, family support or a fresh start, and you want to do it properly.

The other parent plans to move

You got a notice, or heard about a move, and want to respond in time.

A move already happened

A child was moved without notice and you need to act.

What we do

  1. 1 Prepare or review the relocation notice and check every date
  2. 2 File a timely objection when you oppose the move
  3. 3 Build a long-distance plan: summers, holidays, travel costs and video calls
  4. 4 Gather the facts a court weighs, such as school, family support and the child's ties
  5. 5 Seek temporary orders when timing is tight

How Washington usually handles it

In general terms. Your facts, your county and recent changes in the law all matter, so ask us how this applies to you.

  • A parent planning to move with a child usually has to give written notice ahead of time.
  • The other parent can object within a set period. Missing that window can limit your options.
  • Courts weigh many factors, including the child's relationships, stability and the reasons for and against the move.
  • Most relocation cases end with a revised parenting plan, whether or not the move happens.

What to bring

  • Any notice you sent or received, with dates
  • Details of the move: city, school, job and housing
  • The current parenting plan
  • Travel options and costs between the two homes

The honest part

Relocation cases are hard on everyone and hard to predict. We focus on what a court can actually order and on keeping your child connected to both parents, whatever the outcome.

We never promise a custody, parenting time or support outcome. Anyone who does is guessing.

An example of how this can go

Example outcome Settled before trial

Objection to a move out of state

Spokane County ยท About 7 months

Situation. A mother planned a move several hundred miles away for work. The father objected in time.

What happened. The move went ahead under a revised long-distance plan: most of the summer and alternating holidays with the father, weekly video calls, and travel costs split.

Example outcomes are illustrations for this demo, based on common situations. Every family and every case is different. Past results do not predict or guarantee the result of any future case, and nothing here is legal advice. More example outcomes

Common questions

How far is a 'move' for these rules?

It depends on whether the move changes school districts or disrupts the schedule. Even a short move can trigger notice rules. Ask before you sign a lease.

What if I just move and sort it out later?

Please don't. Moving without proper notice can hurt your case and your credibility. A short consult first is far cheaper than fixing it after.

All questions

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Start with our plain-language guides on support, parenting plans, paternity and grandparents' rights.

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